As we move through the years, many relationships can become quite stale. This can certainly lead to times of tenison, stress, confusion, and even anxiety.
Many people believe there are well-guarded secrets to a healthy and fulfilling love life. Experiencing intimacy is a common need for every human being, so it is no wonder we are all looking for ways to improve this area of our lives. There are plenty of clinical studies that show the positive medical and mental effects of an affectionate love life. Therefore, let’s take a look at just three of the best ways you can spice up your love life.
Someone once told me that “a man should never stop courting his woman, and woman should never stop flirting with her man.” This is why date night is absolutely paramount to having an intimate and loving relationship. It makes both partners feel special in the other’s eyes.
This night should be for just the two of you. Send the kids to grandma’s or over to a friend’s for the entire night, shut down electronics, etc. Commit to the date night and make it an all night event. Even just once a month will make a huge difference.
Experiment in the Bedroom
If you’re reading this article, it’s likely that you and your partner have been together for some time now, so there is a certain level of trust when it comes to this most personal level of intimacy. By now, you know the hot spots of your partner. You know what they like and what they don’t like. Don’t let this lull you into a state of comfort where you don’t try anything new.
There are hundreds of ways to spice up bedroom play time, and it can be anywhere from a sensual massage all over the body, including the nether regions, to experimenting with tantric positions. Communicate and talk it over. Don’t be afraid to tell your partner what turns you on. Part of a healthy love life includes complete openness and communication. Tell them everything you love about what they do to you in the private sanctuary of your bedroom, or whatever room you choose to play in.
Be Active and Play Together
This doesn’t have to mean exercise, although that is a great way to bond and will carry over into the bedroom. Take a bike ride, go horseback riding, hike, walk on the beach, pick up a hobby together, volunteer, etc. Virtually anything can be done to stay active together. Be friends. That is the important part. Don’t just love your partner, but like them too.
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